My personal spiritual journey became one of significant transformation after a divorce. In the aftermath, wrecked with the guilt of a failed relationship that resulted in me not being there full time for my two boys, I left pastoral ministry and for a time the Church, a career I had had for 8 years at that point.
In the searching that followed, I eventually found my way to receiving communion for the first time in roughly two years. Receiving the elements led to the overwhelming experience of being loved and accepted despite all my faults. I wept. Since then I have embraced the forgiving and deeply loving nature of the divine, something that is present even when we can not forgive or love ourselves.
Being single for the first time in nearly a decade also gave me insight into the ways the traditional Christian Church structures were not serving the spiritual needs of younger people. The Church had become disconnected from the reality of so many people and had very little to say to the real life challenges so many facing.
It would easy to say my goal was to do church differently, in a new way, but in reality I realized it was more about returning church life to attending to the spiritual needs of the community, fostering a community committed to nurturing spiritual growth and healthier just relationships.
I also realized that not all people are able to do that sort of work in a church setting, and also made a commitment to serve anyone seeking spiritual deeming regardless of religious affiliation or lack of it.
If you have a sense that there is something deeper within you that you need to connect with, reach out and I would be honored to work with you to define a spiritual discipline that works for you, that you can do, not just something you “should” do. I come to spiritual direction with a wealth of practices that have stood the test of time and that can be adjusted to your spiritual strengths and needs.
Even if you do not feel a desire to engage in Spiritual Direction or Guided Silent Meditation I hope you find something in the midst of this website that speaks to you and aids you on your own journey.